What is a Good Life? #86 - Knowing That We Belong with Nic Askew

On the 86th episode of the What is a Good Life? podcast, I'm delighted to introduce Nic Askew as our guest. Nic is a filmmaker who has discovered a powerful way to use the camera to deepen people's awareness. He has been described in various ways—an itinerant confessor, a disruptive influence, a monk independent of any religion, and an explorer of the inner world.

Over two decades of exploring human connection, authenticity, and insight through film, Nic has uncovered a profoundly simple way for us to be together, which he calls Inner View. This method has led to the creation of the acclaimed Soul Biographies Film Series, an experience of human presence that has resonated with millions.

In this enlightening conversation, Nic clearly articulates and points to a deeply felt sense of universal belonging, without the need to do, improve, or follow steps—simply by virtue of our existence and the lack of separation between us. He discusses how he uses the camera, stillness, and nothing to reveal our innate sense of belonging. With an awareness of this belonging, we can move through the world working on behalf of everyone and everything with life living itself through us.

If you're struggling with feelings of unworthiness, a lack of belonging, or the belief that you need to fix or improve yourself, Nic's insights may help you see beyond these barriers to the simple truth of your inherent worth and obvious belonging.

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For further content and information check out the following:

Soul Biographies: https://soulbiographies.com/
Nic's website: https://nicaskew.com/
Nic's newsletter: https://nicaskew.substack.com/

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00:00 Introduction
03:00 What is this work that I do?

07:19 Stillness, awareness, and a realisation of belonging

13:40 The power of silence and subtracting

18:07 The challenge of our cultural way of being

20:40 The realisation of our connectedness

26:20 Become aware of what we are capable of

30:50 Stillness and silence tending to our trauma

33:20 Life living itself through you - nothing to do

41:40 An awareness of the dissolving of time and space

46:40 The Girl in the Entrance Hall

51:10 Working on behalf of everyone and everything

58:20 Realising why everyone hurt

1:04:45 It is much more simple than we imagine

1:11:15 An absence of time in our encounters

1:16:20 Could I be doing something else?

1:21:23 What is a good life for Nic?