03-05-2023
#22: Creating that Parent-Teen Connection-Get Curious About Who They Are
“I feel called to speak to parents, called to invite them into this new conversation with themselves, to be reflective, to see why they feel the impulses and the urges to lead in the way that they do in their parenting relationship. And especially if they come to me and they're asking that they want to do better than just surviving the teenage years, they want to be thriving in those years. Well, it's about that tuning-in and that curiosity and creating that connection with the child. And I can tell you, I have yet to meet a teenager that doesn't light up when they're with me. When they truly believe that I am curious about who they are. It's my, it's my access point, when I'm able to make that connection and say, you know what? It's all inside you. You've got it. Let's explore, let's investigate, let's get curious. I want to know you. I want to know what you're all about, what you're here to do. All that good stuff. It unlocks them and it opens this access to all these potentials, all this possibility, all this wonder and amazement about how they fit into this world and what they're here to create and do. And the parents that can reflect on how they came to be in this position, in this parenting role, and reflect on what their goals are as parents to get their child to adulthood, developmentally, that's a parent that's done some work and some self-reflection."
It's important for parents to recognize that adolescence is a critical period in a child's life where they are developing their sense of self and forming their identity. Parents can play a significant role in supporting their child's development by being present, engaged, and open-minded. Self-reflection can be a powerful tool for parents to gain awareness of their own biases, beliefs, and behaviors that may impact their relationship with their child.
By examining their own upbringing and experiences, parents can gain a deeper understanding of how they came to be who they are and how that may influence their parenting. This can help parents become more attuned to their child's needs and feelings, leading to more effective communication and a stronger relationship.
Overall, the parent guide has the potential to provide valuable insights and guidance for parents navigating the challenges of raising a teenager.
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