The Living Waters Podcast

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a German pastor and theologian, is remembered as being deeply devoted to Christ. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk of Bonhoeffer’s life as being marked by bravery and love for God, making him an inspiring example for Christians wrestling with difficult moral questions. Bonhoeffer, born in 1906, was a key figure in the resistance against Nazism in Germany and ultimately sacrificed his life for his faith and involvement in resistance efforts.With Hitler’s influence in Germany growing to include the church, Bonhoeffer refused to align with the Riech’s beliefs. His courage was evident as he actively spread the message of resistance across Europe. Although a self-proclaimed pacifist, Bonhoeffer's conviction was tested with his involvement in resisting the Nazis. This moral conflict illustrates that some situations demanded extraordinary measures. He was eventually imprisoned and executed, but even in his death, Bonhoeffer exhibited a profound peace, knowing he had laid down his life for Christ.The discussion around Bonhoeffer extends to the ethical dilemmas Christians face. Two-thirds of German Christians initially supported Hitler, swayed by his promises to the church. Bonhoeffer, however, warned against nationalism and argued that Christians could not serve both the nation and Christ. His stance was unpopular, but he held firm, believing that truth is non-negotiable. For Bonhoeffer, consequences were irrelevant if they meant compromising his commitment to the Lord. He argued that love for Christ cannot remain silent in the face of tyranny.In discussing how to handle difficult moral situations, the conversation turns to God's sovereignty. Christians may face yes-or-no questions, but they must discern the deeper implications of their actions. Should one lie to save a life, for example? The guys talk about how lying is sinful, and argue that deception can glorify God if it protects the innocent, as seen in Rahab’s story. The guys offer various perspectives on this topic.The Bible doesn't provide easy answers to every situation, but it gives believers the guidance they need. Bonhoeffer's life shows that obedience to God often requires standing against the norms of society. Christians must find conviction, pray for guidance, and take action, trusting God with the consequences. Like Bonhoeffer, they are called to stand for truth, love the oppressed, and live without compromise. God’s sovereignty means Christians can trust Him even in the most difficult moral dilemmas, knowing that Christ is at the center of it all.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

The LGBTQ community has changed from something that was rarely seen to now something that is seen almost daily. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar jump into this topic by encouraging believers to not be scared to address sensitive topics with their kids. Be proactive. Kids are exposed to these issues as early as kindergarten, so it’s crucial to teach them before the world does. Tailor the conversation to their age, and frame it in light of scripture. Ray recalls when these topics weren’t an issue, sharing an experience of someone confused about their identity finding salvation. He emphasizes that repentance means turning over a new leaf.Teaching kids about these sensitive matters while fostering compassion is vital. Silence allows the world’s lies to take root, leading kids to believe sexuality is shameful or that God doesn’t care about their LGBTQ friends. The guys encourage Christians to avoid an us vs. them mentality, which can imply shame. All non-Christians are trapped in ideologies that promise freedom but deliver bondage, and LGBTQ neighbors need salvation too. The goal is to remind kids of the hope of the gospel and that we are all image bearers of God.The issue of whether or not to send your children to public school or homeschool comes down to conviction. Your children may have a strong relationship with the Lord if they go to public school, but E.Z. suggests evaluating whether they can withstand worldly pressures. Radical discipleship is necessary in any case, including daily devotions and biblically sound content. The guys suggest using any encounters with unbiblical ideas as teaching moments without reacting in shock, instead gently probing your children’s hearts.In this conversation, the guys address how Christian kids should be taught to interact with LGBTQ individuals. Teach your kids about God’s existence and accountability, instilling a healthy fear of the Lord. Emphasize that God is reconciling the world to Himself through grace. Remind kids they are created in the image of God, and His design leads to joy. Train kids to speak the truth in love. Focus on God’s commandments rather than individual sins.For non-Christians who wonder why believers are against someone living their life the way they want to, know that God isn’t withholding joy but offering greater joy beyond mere desires. All people were designed with purpose, meaning, and value. Don’t settle for less when God offers fullness of life in Christ. Parents must lead these conversations with their children, helping them see both the ugliness of sin and the beauty of God’s design.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Many say they need to find themselves, but what does that mean? Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk about how when we look within ourselves for meaning, we walk away disheartened. The truth is, we find ourselves by losing ourselves in Christ. Believers don’t need to find themselves; they need to forget themselves. When we keep our eyes on the Lord, the opinions of others won’t bother us. Only when we realize that Jesus is all we have do we understand He’s all we need.What we think about ourselves dictates our entire lives. Historically, people found identity through those around them, but when society decays, this can fail. The world tells people to look, but our hearts make terrible gods. What happens when an entire generation looks inside and sees hypocrisy, lies, and brokenness? The gospel teaches Christians to look to the Lord for our identity. Before Ray was saved, he felt an inner cry that only Christ could answer. In Him, we find truth, and the truth sets us free. The call isn’t to discover ourselves, but to deny ourselves for God’s glory. Many people don’t know why they’re alive—that’s the horror of a life without God. We must return to the God who made our souls.The world tells us to love ourselves, but Scripture says to love our neighbors as ourselves because self-love comes naturally. Today’s culture sets us up as gods. This is why so many people, including celebrities, end up lost and lonely. Only when we understand what Jesus did and who He is can we find peace. The guys talk about a believer’s biblical identity as sons and daughters of the living God. We don’t need to find our identity—it was given to us in salvation. When our eyes are on the Lord, everything else falls into place. Even in uncertainty, we don’t question God’s love. The Lord is our foundation and salvation, and it is well with our souls. To be loved by God as His child is to be adopted into His family. As believers, our identity is found in being God’s prized possession. His love for us is deeper than any human love. Out of all creation, His adopted children are His favorite. We are His inheritance. When we possess the greatest treasure, nothing else matters. We’ve been touched by the living God, and we don’t need to search for meaning—we are His children. When the world comes against us, God defends us. Our worth is found in Him alone. Look to the cross, and you will never lose sight of His love. There's no greater cure for your soul than being consumed by the Lord.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

The American dream, often defined as life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, has increasingly become intertwined with the pursuit of money and success. Many politicians refer to this idea, yet it doesn’t reflect the reality for much of the world, where many are just trying to survive. While it’s not wrong to be financially well off, the American dream often replaces God’s kingdom with idols. Success can become an idol competing with God’s rightful place in our lives. Our hearts are prone to idolatry, constantly producing desires that compete with God. The Christian life is like climbing an ice mountain, striving to glorify God in all things, while the world tempts us to fall back into its traps.Success often ties a person to the world, but this world is fading. Contentment, however, is the key to true enjoyment of life. "The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want." We entered this world with nothing, and we leave with nothing. Be content with the things of God, for the pursuit of worldly satisfaction will never fulfill. The American dream has shifted over time, from preparing for eternity, to building strong families, to now chasing self-fulfillment and consumerism. But satisfaction is never found in accumulating more things; the world is designed to make us want more, but true contentment only comes from God.This drive for success is ultimately empty. Discontentment is often rooted in covetousness, but we can find peace in knowing that God will never leave us. Our identity is found in Christ, and we must remember to decrease so He may increase. Though Jesus was rich, He became poor for our sake, and He is the ultimate treasure. We gain everything in knowing Christ, and we must invest our hearts and lives in God’s kingdom.True success is being consumed by the living God. If we devoted ourselves to prayer, meditation on God’s Word, and a deep relationship with Him, we would be transformed. Wealth alone doesn’t make a person carnal, but worldly success without God is ultimately meaningless. Whether you work in ministry or in a secular job, your work is sacred when done for the Lord. Invest your time, witness to others, make and save money, but also give generously. It’s not about us but about Christ’s work on the cross. Godliness with contentment is of great value. As Christians, we must live with an eternal mindset, pursuing Christ above all. No greater joy will be found than in being consumed with Christ, and He will care for you as you seek Him. Focus your week on glorifying the Lord in all that you do.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Millennials leaving the church raises important questions. Some may wonder if their departure reflects a lack of genuine faith. Faith based on other people rather than a relationship with God can easily falter. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar encourage believers to stir one another up in the faith while many are becoming disillusioned with the church in our current culture. The failure of church leadership, fallen pastors, and hypocrisy have turned many against Christianity. At the same time, society has grown skeptical of authority, leading to a shift where people exchange one belief system for another—replacing Christianity with politics, entertainment, or other man made religions.Hypocrisy within the church is often pointed out, and while it's important to acknowledge this, we are reminded that everyone will give an account to God. Christians, however, have the grace to admit their faults and repent. Integrity in God's eyes comes through repentance. There’s also the issue of the modern church’s frivolity. Millennials have high expectations for authenticity. While larger, entertainment-driven churches may be losing members, smaller traditional churches are growing, offering a more grounded, relational approach to faith. Millennials crave genuine community, but they often see the church as existing for itself rather than for others. True fellowship, as modeled in the early church, is a communal way of living that goes beyond a Sunday gathering.One challenge for younger generations is that older generations often look down on them, which can drive them away. Instead, the church needs to engage millennials, offering them a seat at the table. They need to feel known, loved, and valued in a gospel-centered community, not just attend a service led by a polished preacher. Authentic leadership fosters a dynamic church community. Rather than waiting for Millenials to come to church, believers must take the church to them, proclaiming the gospel. Sound doctrine is essential, as it safeguards faith, and Millennials are hungry for it. Preachers should focus less on growing the church and more on being the church—leading by example and letting the word of God do its work.For those who have left the church, it’s essential to examine why. You won’t find a perfect church, but look for one with authentic community and sound teaching. God doesn’t change—He is righteous. The heart of the church recognizes that we are all sinners in need of grace. Corporate worship is for God’s people, and it’s through this gathering that we grow in our faith.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Jonny Ardavanis joins Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar to discuss finding peace in the character of God, as explored in his book, Consider the Lilies. Though he never initially saw himself as a pastor, he now serves full-time in Tennessee, driven by a desire to offer hope in an anxious world. In full time ministry Jonny observed widespread struggles with anxiety and depression, prompting him to explore these issues from a biblical perspective. He emphasizes that anxiety isn’t limited to young people; it’s a pervasive issue that many try to escape by staying busy. However, busyness often worsens the problem, as true peace comes from deep reflection on God’s character.Jonny argues that anxiety is like a ski lift that never reaches the top of the mountain—an ever-present tension beneath the surface. The guys along with Jonny talk about slowing down and contemplating God’s attributes to combat this. They suggest that believers often fill their lives with neutral things that offer no real help, leading to an underdeveloped view of God’s attributes. In Scripture, when God addresses the anxious, He reveals His character, reminding them that He is an ever-present help in times of trouble. Jonny emphasizes that God’s sovereignty cannot be separated from His character. For instance, when David was fleeing from Saul, he found comfort in knowing that God understood him deeply, which calmed his anxious heart. Jonny highlights that even Jesus, fully human, experienced deep sorrow and distress, showing empathy and tender care for the anxious.When addressing those who feel condemned by their anxiety, Jonny advises starting with questions and acknowledging that fear is a human experience. Christians should lean on their community and cast their cares on God, who is stronger and wiser. Jonny also addresses the modern epidemic of loneliness, noting that anxiety often isolates people from what they need most—being known and loved. He encourages people to be open with God and the local church, reminding them that they don’t have to bear their burdens alone. Jesus, who knew true grief, betrayal, and abandonment, identifies with us in our suffering. The group concludes that knowing God leads to experiencing the peace of God. This relationship is both a privilege and a foundation for hope. We can be confident that God will not leave us, because He forsook His own Son on the cross to secure our relationship with Him. This assurance, coupled with understanding the character of God, draws believers into a deeper intimacy and trust in Him.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

As election season approaches, it's important to reflect on how we should engage with politics. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar remind us that politicians are human and flawed, and while we may support certain candidates, it’s essential to remember a believer’s ultimate citizenship is in heaven. Israel was instructed to contribute to society while in exile but also warned not to assimilate with the culture. Likewise, we should engage but avoid political idolatry, as our hope lies in God’s kingdom, not in earthly leaders.When we place more hope in a political candidate than in God, we risk idolatry. No political agenda can achieve what Christ secured on the cross. While America is imperfect, the freedom to practice and share our faith without fear is a blessing; however when patriotism becomes blind to flaws, it turns into an idol. So, how do Christians engage in politics without falling into idolatry? The key is not to let politics become our savior or source of joy. Political ideologies often mirror eschatological themes—creation, fall, redemption—but they can conflict with God’s narrative. When we elevate ideologies above our faith, they become idols. Civil conversations, even with those who disagree, help us maintain peace and avoid the divisiveness that leads to idolatry.God establishes governing authorities, and while rebellion can be justified under certain circumstances our general posture should be one of submission. The American spirit often leans toward rebellion, but scripture calls for a heart of submission and lament, not pride. True rebellion is only warranted when it’s a matter of following God’s commands. Christians are called to be peacemakers in a world of anger and division. Until Christ returns, we are to occupy this world without becoming overly attached to it. We can vote, but the election results are in God’s hands. Trust in His plan and focus on walking with the Lord, knowing He’s in control. While it’s natural to feel upset by outcomes, do not let them shake your faith. Watch your words, and remember that political identities should never overshadow your identity as a child of God.Christians are called to participate in politics but with a higher allegiance to the kingdom of God. Involvement is important, but so is checking the order of our love and ensuring that the gospel, not an agenda, guides us. We should vote, teach our children about politics, and even run for office, but always keep our ultimate focus on God’s kingdom.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Many church services are centered on entertainment, which opens the door for celebrity pastors. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk about how the focus of many churches has shifted from preaching the gospel to getting more people in the doors. This man-centered approach leads churches to prioritize charisma over genuine spiritual leadership. The goal should be to live, preach, and be forgotten, magnifying the Lord rather than the individual. True pastoral leadership is about shepherding souls, not cultivating personal fame.One of the dangers of celebrity pastoralism is the gravitational pull such pastors create, drawing followers toward them rather than toward Christ. A meaningful relationship with a local pastor is crucial because your local pastor cares for your soul, while an online influencer may be more focused on views. The issue is not necessarily with well-followed pastors, but with our human tendency to idolize them. We turn them into prophets, forgetting that our closeness to God comes through Jesus. To avoid idolizing pastors, we must remember they are flawed, like all of us. Instead of placing them on pedestals, we should pray for them.When looking for a church, it is essential to examine the humility and Christ-centered focus of the leadership. Good leaders are concerned about the lost and should live with authenticity, treating others with love and respect. As Oscar shared, after witnessing two personal pastors disqualify themselves, he became more grateful for those who live authentically. We should gravitate toward our local pastors, observing how they live their lives and interact with others. Accountability is key, as pastors without it may feel isolated, fearing they have no one to turn to when they struggle. The fall of a pastor often begins when they lose accountability, surround themselves with yes-men, or stop seeking God wholeheartedly. If a pastor finds themselves entangled in sin, they should first turn to their spouse and open up to their leadership team. Holding onto celebrity power will only lead to further downfall. God, who provides in pastorship, will continue to provide outside of it. Righteousness matters more than maintaining a position.For soul care, pastors must have fellowship with others in ministry and maintain a transparent devotional life. A straying pastor often lacks this connection with God. Pastors, like all of us, are placed in positions by God’s grace alone, and the church is not about one individual. It is a body, where Christ is the head, providing the perfect example of true servant leadership.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Jay Smith, a missionary with extensive experience ministering to Muslims, sits down with Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar to talk about how Christians can more effectively witness to Muslim people. Jay was born in India and initially had no interest in witnessing to Islam people.He learned that so few missionaries were reaching out to one of the largest religions in the world, and this spurred him to begin evangelizing to Muslim people. One issue he addresses is the Muslim claim that the Bible is corrupted. Jay counters by asking Muslims to provide evidence of Bible corruption and points out that the Quran itself speaks positively of the Bible. Mark asks how Muslims view grace and how Christians can discuss it with them. Jay explains that Islam, like most man-made religions, emphasizes works-based salvation. He describes how Islamic teachings about salvation are influenced by Zoroastrian beliefs. Christianity, by contrast, offers grace through Jesus' sacrifice, fulfilling Old Testament prophecy. Oscar shares his experience of the resistance Muslims show when hearing about God’s love. Jay suggests that pointing out how earthly father figures reflect the god they serve can be a way to bridge the gap. He highlights that the God of the Bible, unlike the Islamic concept of God, interacts personally with His people and provides a path to salvation through Jesus.A recurring topic in Muslim-Christian debates is the doctrine of the Trinity, which Muslims often reject as a man-made concept. Jay notes that while the term itself was coined later, it reflects a concept that is clearly in scripture, much like certain Islamic doctrines that were formalized after the Quran was written. The guys, along with Jay, emphasize the importance of always steering debates toward the gospel, even when addressing objections about the Bible or the Quran. While Jay engages in historical critiques of the Quran he believes that presenting the gospel is ultimately more powerful. There is a curious phenomenon where many secular people defend Islam while viewing Christianity as dangerous. Jay attributes this to ignorance and a lack of Christian presence in public discourse. He touches on the conflict between Israel and Palestine, noting the complexities of Hamas's role and the broader Middle Eastern perspective.Ultimately, Jay’s approach to evangelism centers on presenting the gospel while being prepared to break down intellectual and spiritual barriers. Despite opposition, he remains focused on his mission, trusting in God's protection and guidance, much like the early disciples.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Have you ever questioned the wisdom of following your heart? We venture into this profound inquiry, contrasting the cultural encouragement from figures like Steve Jobs and Oprah Winfrey with the cautionary tales from biblical teachings in Galatians and Romans. The discussion begins with a personal story of a spontaneous act of kindness during a flight from Ecuador, illustrating life's unpredictability and the spiritual battles we face daily. This episode invites you to reflect on the tension between fleshly desires and godly wisdom, drawing parallels to a soldier's vigilance required in life's battles.As we navigate through the complexities of human nature, the mantra of following one's heart is scrutinized. We share stories and experiences that challenge this notion, highlighting the potential for self-justification of sinful behavior. The conversation delves into the struggle of sharing the gospel with those who believe in their own self-righteousness and the pervasive belief in personal goodness despite evident transgressions. Through personal anecdotes, we emphasize the necessity of a heavenly perspective and a higher moral standard, urging listeners to reconsider the inherent goodness of the heart.The episode also addresses the modern existential crisis brought on by society's shift toward self-reliance and self-discovery. We explore the paradox of hedonism, where the pursuit of self-pleasure often leads to greater unhappiness. The importance of acknowledging our sinful nature is underscored, using theological insights and cultural references as a guide. By drawing parallels between contemporary society and the days of Noah, listeners are encouraged to confront their sins and recognize their need for a savior. Through scripture and insightful reflections, this episode promises a journey of self-awareness and spiritual awakening, challenging your perspective and inspiring change.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Singleness and marriage are both gifts from God, each offering unique opportunities. Ray has desired marriage ever since he was a young child and E.Z. always dreamed of marriage and kids, while Oscar was perfectly content to stay single for the rest of his life. Mark, on the other hand, saw his singleness as an opportunity to pursue his devotion to the Lord. Singleness isn't about waiting patiently for marriage; it's a gift from God to be used for His purpose. One challenge singles face comes from within the church, where there can be an overemphasis on marriage, leaving singles feeling sidelined. Yet singleness is meant to testify that Jesus is enough. When you're single, your focus can be fully on the kingdom of God, without the added concerns that come with marriage and family life.Jesus, the most complete person who ever lived, was single. If you're single, use this time wisely. Seek the Lord and serve Him. Marriage is good, but there are opportunities in singleness you won't have when you're married. For example, John Wesley, a great Christian leader, remained single until he was 48. Statistically, even those who are married may find themselves single again due to death or divorce. If that happens, the same principles apply—don’t waste your singleness.It’s better to remain single than to marry someone who hinders your ability to serve the Lord. Singleness is not a curse; it allows you to be wholly devoted to God. Mark reflects on what he would do differently if he could return to his single years: study the Bible, seek mentorship, and serve actively in the church. Many women, driven by desperation, rush into marriages they later regret, often ending up with a spouse who doesn’t share their faith. Marriage to someone who doesn’t love the Lord can be a constant struggle. Therefore, single adults should stay active in their church communities and find ways to serve.Being single allows you to focus completely on God, and you can utilize your time in ways that will be more difficult once you're married. Ask yourself how you can serve God now, and don’t waste this season. Christ must be your everything, or you’ll create an idol out of marriage or your future spouse. Marriage isn’t a guarantee of happiness, and your spouse won’t save you from loneliness. If you put your happiness on another person, you risk turning them into a functional savior.When you understand singleness as a gift, you'll better appreciate marriage when it comes. Be encouraged—whether single or married, there is fullness for you in the Lord. True fulfillment can only be found in Him.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

God and hate are rarely associated together, yet understanding God’s nature reveals that He hates what opposes His love. God is a jealous God who desires our devotion. Sin, in many ways, represents hate because it separates us from Him. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar talk through Proverbs 6:16-19 which details what God hates, serving as a guide for what we should avoid. Sin is deadly serious, and though it leads to death, God extends mercy to those in Christ.The first thing listed that God hates is a proud face. Pride, the root of the first temptation, places us at the center of our own story. It is particularly visible in environments like sports, where praise and accolades can lead to arrogance. Yet, pride doesn’t require a platform — anytime we see ourselves as the central figure, we edge into pride. True humility is recognizing that it’s Christ’s story, and we are privileged to be part of it. Next, God hates a lying tongue. Truth is vital because God embodies honesty. Lying defames God’s image and erodes our relationship with Him. In today’s world, lying is often normalized, but it’s first and foremost a sin against God. Lying is a shortcut, often motivated by the love of money, but God calls us to integrity, and immersing ourselves in His Word keeps us from deception.When considering hands that shed innocent blood, abortion comes to mind. Millions of innocent lives are lost, yet God values life. We must stand against the destruction of life, recognizing that life is God’s gift. Abel’s blood cried out for justice, but Christ’s blood cried out for mercy, offering us salvation. God also hates a heart that devises wicked plans. Every one of us has devised evil at some point, but a new heart in Christ changes that. Premeditating sin is dangerous. Instead, God calls us to align our plans with His will. Similarly, He hates feet that are swift to run to evil. Sin is enticing, but we are to run from it, pursuing sanctification. Sin is always near, but with the power of the Spirit, we can flee from it.Lastly, God hates one who sows discord among brothers. Unity within the church is precious, and causing division is detestable to God. We should strive to foster peace and unity, addressing gossip or negativity by creating positive environments. This passage is a stark reminder of God’s hatred for sin and His call for us to live in a way that honors Him. Through Christ, we have the power to turn from these things and live in righteousness, united as believers.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Arrogance is a very real issue, and King Nebuchadnezzar serves as a prime example. He was the wealthiest man on the planet, warned by Daniel about his pride, yet he refused to turn from it. We can all relate to the temptation of arrogance. There’s a thin line between confidence and arrogance, often found in the pathways of forgetfulness. Nebuchadnezzar took credit for his accomplishments rather than giving glory to God. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar remind Christians that in reality, everything we have comes from God. Without Him, we are incapable of true success.Unbelievers often claim God hasn’t given them anything, but even their minds, ears, and breath are gifts from Him. Believers and unbelievers alike often act like we are self-sufficient, yet we have a beginning because we have a Creator. Life is a mystery to unbelievers, but the Bible tells us our purpose. When we lose control, we should turn to the Lord. If you think you are wise, you are a fool. You can either trust in yourself or recognize your need for wisdom. True wisdom begins with humility. There’s a direct link between our hearts and our demeanor; arrogance must go when life humbles us. The cross, above all, humbles us. It shows us that our deepest need is reconciliation to God—a need we cannot meet on our own. Self-examination is the antidote to self-deception, helping us recalibrate our hearts. Looking to cross reminds us that we can’t save ourselves. All of life is a gift from God, and arrogance blinds us to this truth. When we forget God, we often become rude, insensitive, and self-sufficient. Arrogance doesn’t pray because it feels no need for help. When we finally see the danger in pride, we will ask God for help. Arrogance, by removing God from the equation, leads to self-idolatry. Hell is God giving us over to the desires of our hearts. Everyone must recognize their need for God and continually turn to Him in life, so they have Him for eternity.To think we are anything without God is lunacy. He created us in His image, for the purpose of knowing Him and making Him known. Sin itself is a form of arrogance, a defiance of God’s plan. It invites the enemy into our lives and our families. Atheism, in many ways, is the epitome of arrogance, fueled by a lack of fear of the Lord. Even those who don’t think they are arrogant often reveal their arrogance in that very belief. Surround yourself with people who will speak into your life and hold you accountable. As Christians, we have blind spots in our sanctifying process, and we need others to help humble us and point us back to God.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar start this conversation by talking about Luke 7:34 and how it those mocking Jesus called Him a friend of sinners as an insult. Yet, as believers, we know this to be a blessing. Jesus being a friend of sinners is central to our hope—if He wasn’t, we would be doomed. There is a blindness in sin that leads people to view themselves through their own standard, not God’s. Some resist confessing their sin, but Jesus calls us to come as we are, not try to fix ourselves first.A true friend of sinners pleads with the lost to be right with God. While people speak of Jesus' love, that doesn’t mean He ignored sin. He came with compassion, yet without compromising truth. No one can out-sin the grace of God. However, there is a lack of balance when we help others without sharing the gospel. Ministries often experience drift away from their original mission when they lose sight of this truth. The Greek word *philos* means a dear friend, and that’s what Jesus was—even to tax collectors and Pharisees. Though He was compassionate, He never compromised. Jesus’ friendship to sinners, like Zacchaeus, wasn’t approval of their sin but a call to repentance.We need to emulate Christ’s example as we engage the world. In Mark 6, Jesus taught and fed a multitude, combining good works with the gospel. We must do both. It’s easy to drift to the extremes of either isolating ourselves from the world or over compromising to fit in. Jesus showed us how to engage with the world without compromising our beliefs. He was a friend of sinners but not of sin. The story of the rich young ruler in Mark 10 shows that even when people walk away, we must still give them the truth in love.The guys talk about love as action—it costs us time, talent, and treasure. There’s a difference between being a friend of sinners and being a friend of the world. Relationships with non-believers are not dangerous if approached with purpose. Being around non-believers gives us the opportunity to share the gospel, and friendships with believers allow us to grow together in faith. We should always be rich in good works, yet maintain a tension when interacting with the fallen world. If we are not bothered by their lost state, we should check our hearts. As believers, we were once dead in our sins, which should stir a desire in us to reach the lost. Ignorance of Scripture may lead some to falsely believe Jesus is their friend, but without repentance, they will face God's judgment. This truth must drive our mission to faithfully proclaim the gospel.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

God created men and women with equal value and early Christianity elevated women in a time when women were oppressed. Misusing scripture to dominate or oppress women is a sin, and believers are called to submit to one another out of love for Christ.Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar start this conversation by highlighting an important biblical truth: God created both men and women in His image, giving them equal value. While some who claim Christianity have oppressed women, scripture itself uplifts women. Jesus brought women from the margins to Himself, and throughout the Bible, women are honored, both in the Old and New Testament. Christianity was a driving force in elevating women’s equality.The Bible teaches that men and women are co-laborers, equal before God; however, many focus on verses instructing wives to submit to their husbands, missing the broader command to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Submission in marriage, according to scripture, is about mutual care and respect. Husbands are called to sacrificially love their wives, just as Christ loved the church. This does not mean women are lesser. They are helpmates, not subordinates. A true biblical marriage involves mutual support, where men and women complement each other, serving their God-given roles.Christianity has historically elevated women, with Jesus' resurrection being first witnessed by women. While men and women are biologically different, this does not diminish their spiritual or personal equality. The Bible’s leadership structure often sparks controversy, particularly regarding the role of women in the church. Scripture designates men as the heads of households and leaders of congregations, not because women are inferior, but because of God’s commands that bring harmony when followed. Women are called to teach and lead within appropriate contexts  while men are called to lay down their lives for their wives in love and service. This structure, when followed with love and respect, reflects the unity and harmony intended by God. It calls for a humility that recognizes all people are made in God's image, deserving of dignity and care.The harmony that arises when men and women embrace their God-given roles is a beautiful picture of God’s design. Misinterpreting scripture to dominate or oppress women is a serious sin against God’s image. Men must treat women with gentleness and respect, understanding that before they are wives, daughters, or mothers, they are first and foremost God’s daughters If men have gone astray in this regard, they are called to repent and realign with God’s design, honoring the women in their lives as co-heirs of God’Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Critics of Christianity often point to its many denominations to disprove it, wondering how Christianity can be true if there is division within it; however, these divisions arise from differences in secondary issues, not core beliefs. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar dive into how denominations represent different facets of the same faith, unified under Jesus Christ. Some groups are labeled as denominations but fall outside orthodoxy, or true teaching, but this is an exception. Ray believes denominations exist because no two people agree on everything. Yet the church's foundation is the Lord, who looks at the believer's heart. A genuine Christian is known by their separation from sin and their focus on Christ. The church isn’t a building but the people Jesus ransomed with His blood are. Our gatherings should be marked by reverence. The church is a body of believers who regularly gather, take communion, and proclaim the gospel. It’s not an amorphous institution but a community united in Christ's mission.While Christians may belong to different denominations, they are united by their shared faith. We are all brothers and sisters in Christ. The beauty of the church is its universality. In Jesus' time, the idea of the gospel spreading to Gentiles was radical, and throughout history, denominations formed under God's sovereignty. Oscar gives a brief summary of church history from the time of Jesus’ resurrection to present day. Understanding church history helps us respect why different denominations arose and the reasons for divisions.Christians may disagree on topics like baptism, church government, or spiritual gifts, but they are united in the mission to proclaim the gospel. Essential doctrines—such as the virgin birth, the Trinity, salvation by grace through faith, and Jesus' death and resurrection—define Christianity and distinguish true believers. Secondary issues, such as the inerrancy of Scripture or justification by faith, don’t determine salvation. Non-essential matters, like worship style or eschatology, offer room for disagreement without breaking unity.When searching for a church, it's essential to start with their statement of faith. You may not agree on everything, but a thorough statement reveals their beliefs. Prioritize a church that emphasizes evangelism and examine the leadership structure and ensure there’s accountability. A local and available church fosters community, even when members disagree on secondary issues. Ultimately, we should receive one another under Christ’s and remain united in our shared faith.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

The New Apostolic Reformation is a movement that is leading people astray. Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar discuss how this movement emphasizes personal experiences over scripture, mysticism over doctrine, and elevates modern-day apostles above the Bible. The movement’s founder believed the local church should be under the authority of apostles rather than God's Word. However, the era of apostles has passed, and constantly seeking after signs misleads believers. The NAR’s emphasis on miracles and healing often lures immature Christians away from the core message of the gospel.The NAR promotes cultural dominance, contradicting Jesus' teachings of humility and sacrifice. Jesus chose the cross over earthly power, calling His followers to do the same. While Christians should influence society, this influence must come through service and humility, not through seeking power. The NAR’s emphasis on dominance distorts the gospel and leads believers away from Christ. The NAR gained significant influence in politics and they blurred the lines between God's kingdom and human governments, adding confusion to the church’s role in society. This blending of faith with political power undermines the gospel’s focus on Christ alone.Believers are often drawn to the NAR because of its promises of miracles and personal power. The allure controlling one’s destiny is enticing, but it leads to false teachings that center on human desires rather than God’s truth. False apostles attract crowds by appearing close to God, yet their message is man-centered. This drift from the gospel prioritizes personal gain and worldly influence over spiritual truth. This creates opportunities for false conversions by promoting a watered-down gospel that lacks a call for repentance. Believers must be discerning, ensuring their leaders emphasize Scripture over personal experience and that their focus remains on the Bible. If a church prioritizes emotions and experiences over God's Word, it reflects unhealthy doctrine.Ultimately, the NAR’s focus on power and influence leads believers away from the gospel. Its emphasis on experiences leaves many feeling inadequate when they don’t manifest spiritual gifts like speaking in tongues, contradicting the promises of the Holy Spirit. Rather than seeking authority through personal power, believers should repent and return to the authority of Scripture, trusting God’s Word as their guide.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar dive into Hinduism, a fluid belief system that has absorbed various ideas over time. Flourishing in the 60s and 70s, it has become more visible in modern times. Many people believe in reincarnation, rooted in Hinduism, which starkly contrasts Christian doctrines. Hindus often revere Jesus but see Him as one among many gods. To bridge this gap, it’s important to emphasize the Christian doctrine of creation, distinguishing between the Creator and the creature, and focusing on Jesus as the Lord of all. Repentance and putting away the worship of other gods is central to understanding the Christian message of salvation. Using stories like that of Hosea may help Hindus grasp the exclusivity of Christ’s saving work.Hinduism doesn’t have a single set of rules, leading to a relativistic view of truth. However, contradictions arise, such as the persecution of Christians by Hindus. Despite this, Hinduism remains appealing to many because of its focus on self-purification. It is often considered true due to its antiquity, believed to trace back to the earliest human religions, all of which seem to seek ways to avoid death. As Christians, we understand that fear of death exists in all people, whether Hindu, Buddhist, or Muslim, until they come to know the Lord. Belief in many gods leads to worship of creation rather than the Creator. This focus on self can distort one’s view of God, yet God desires a personal relationship with us. When sharing the gospel with Hindus, it’s essential to communicate God’s love for us and His desire to be known. Christians don't need to master Hinduism; they need to be grounded in scripture. There’s much uncertainty in Hinduism, but Jesus spoke with absolute authority. Hinduism, which often involves idolatry, can hold real power, but that power is demonic.The caste system in Hinduism is linked to reincarnation, as one’s karma determines their place in society. Those outside the caste system, deemed untouchable, are denied dignity, a concept opposed to God’s word. Christianity elevates all people, teaching that each person is worthy of respect because they are made in God’s image. Jesus stood against inequity, elevating women and respecting children in ways that were revolutionary at the time. When advocating for justice and equality, one is essentially upholding Christian beliefs. Jesus brought freedom from the bonds of deception, offering truth that sets people free from inequity and spiritual bondage.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

Navigating relationships with adult children requires allowing space for growth while upholding biblical values. Parents must continue to guide their children with respect, responsibility, and love, even as their roles evolve.Navigating relationships with adult children is a unique stage in life. Ray, E.Z., Mark., and Oscar share their perspectives on this issue, starting with the fact that you no longer have the same authority but still play a vital role. Mark, having heard a preacher’s advice, tells his adult children they are always welcome home for holidays and special occasions but are not expected to come. The absence of expectations can sometimes draw people closer. Putting pressure on relationships can make things awkward. Oscar, who isn’t quite there with his own children but mentors young adults, often hears their hesitation in stepping into adulthood. He encourages them to recognize the blessing of having Christian parents that care, noting that honoring your parents is commanded by God. He emphasizes that respecting parents isn’t about their perfection but rather honoring the office of parenthood.Getting children to value honoring their parents begins with early teachings of the fear of the Lord. When children grow in their love for God, they will honor their parents out of obedience to His word. For young children, parents should be diligent in correcting disrespect right away, ensuring their kids understand that rebellion is a serious matter. Disciplining with focus ensures children learn the importance of obedience and respect. As children grow older and make choices you may not like but aren’t sinful, trusting God’s plan becomes crucial. Parents should learn to let go if it’s not sinful and recognize that their children are being sanctified in the image of God. The goal of parenting is to raise young adults who are equipped to be salt and light in the world. This often means stepping back and letting them be adults, allowing them to make mistakes and grow.If the relationship with adult children has deteriorated, humility is essential. Be willing to admit mistakes and seek reconciliation. At the end of the day, young adults make their own choices, and sometimes they pull away. Oscar shares a story of a friend whose parents want to reconnect, and though it feels awkward, Oscar reminds him that his parents are meeting him where he is in life like they did when he was younger. This continued love mirrors how God pursues us. For those with adult children still living at home, maintaining respect, responsibility, and righteousness is key. Parents should continue to honor the Lord and set boundaries while acknowledging that theirSend us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro

While the world was captivated by the Olympics, the Living Waters team saw an opportunity to share the gospel. Despite the controversy surrounding the event, particularly the mocking portrayal of The Last Supper in the opening ceremony amongst other things, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar focused on evangelism. Thousands joined in handing out tracts, seizing the moment when the world gathered in one place.The French Olympic organizers claimed to celebrate unity, diversity, and neutrality, yet their actions, like banning the hijab, mocking Christianity, and injecting the LGBT agenda, contradicted this message. This reflects a broader issue: mankind's attempts to create a utopia on earth always fail when God is excluded. True unity and a world without discrimination cannot exist without God at the center.Ray observed the blasphemy in Paris from the United States, noting the hypocrisy in how neutrality was claimed while promoting specific agendas, such as homosexuality, without anyone speaking out. This fear of standing against popular opinions highlights an important value that is hard to put into practice. When we fear God, we don’t need to fear man. The double standard is clear—if a church mocked the LGBT community, it would be labeled hatred. This raises questions about the true meaning of tolerance. Genuine tolerance, as a gift from God, allows for disagreement while respecting the image of God in every person. However, in today’s world, tolerance is often confused with acceptance and celebration, where disagreement is not allowed.A video produced by Mark’s sons in Paris garnered millions of views, showing the incredible reach of the gospel message. The team's like-mindedness and spontaneity in sharing the gospel demonstrated their unity, a gift from God. Despite the overwhelming support for the controversial Last Supper performance, some people were open to discussing the hypocrisy it represented, showing that even in a world desensitized to numbers, individual hearts can still be reached. The guys share some of their personal experiences with the outreach. As Christians, we must capitalize on current events to share the gospel, responding not with outrage but with truth and love. The world expects Christians to be offended and outraged, but our response should be marked by righteous indignation, which stems from love for the lost, not hate. We must be humble, advocating for beauty and goodness because we serve the God of truth. Even when evil seems to prevail, we trust that God has a plan, and the gospel will not return void.Send us a text Thanks for listening! If you’ve been helped by this podcast, we’d be grateful if you’d consider subscribing, sharing, and leaving us a comment and 5-star rating! Visit the Living Waters website to learn more and to access helpful resources!You can find helpful counseling resources at biblicalcounseling.com.Check out The Evidence Study Bible and the Basic Training Course.You can connect with us at podcast@livingwaters.com. We're thankful for your input!Learn more about the hosts of this podcast.Ray ComfortEmeal (“E.Z.”) ZwayneMark SpenceOscar Navarro