https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men
The Rise of Lonely, Single Men
Dating apps and a drastically changing relationship landscape.
Posted August 9, 2022
This article is active today on media & presents an opportunity for discussion of relational skills for all & especially for men.
Key points:
1. Intimacy = “into me I see”
2. HOW (Honest, Open, Willing)
3. Differentiation (hold onto self ) & attachment (engage & respond vs. react to BIDS for connection)
4. Self leadership – 8 Cs? OR driven by need for control, image, performance (MANAGERS), reactive, impulsive (FIREFIGHTERS) or by wounds of the past (EXILES)
5. Accountable, clear, embodied (WHO are you, WHAT to you stand for, HOW do you live that) regardless of outcome; do it for you!
6. ARE (attuned, responsive, engaged) + PRESENT-how do you show up for others?
a. Honor you & them
b. NO avoid, defend, deny, distract, stonewall
7. What do you relationally want & how to do you create it? Playmate, company, partner?
8. Who is mentoring you?
Cultural, social conditioning impacts deficit. Intergenerational.
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